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Need a Unique Gift? Why not help "Critters" too?

I count myself extremely lucky in that I am surrounded with family and friends who are at home in their own skin and are independent thinkers.  That is until it comes to gift giving time...  It probably wouldn't be so bad except for the fact that I am a perfectionist gift giver.  I will spend copious amounts of time and energy (and in the past gasoline) to find the gift that perfectly matches the person.  Since gasoline has become so pricey and trundling out with a tot on a search and buy mission has become difficult, I have been trying to find my gifts online. 

Stickers In my searching I recently came across Crafters for Critters.  This website collects items from crafters and sells the donated items to benefit animal causes. Crafters For Critters is not a consignment site. Independent designers/crafters/artists donate handmade goods that are offered for sale here. When the item sells, the selected animal rescue organization gets 100% of the proceeds.

There is a wide variety of items available on the site-- so there is something for everyone.  Some of my favorites include:  Vegan Chocolate TrufflesPersonalized Dog Tagsflower notepads, and these paper pad cozies.

Taking the "Remembering Gratitute" Challenge

If there is one thing that life has taught me, it is that taking time to be grateful is a great stress reducer.  I am pretty good about being thankful when I am sad or very happy. At times, I think I have avoided some significant doldrums by just reminding myself (daily or more often if needed) of all the things for which I am thankful.  However, I am not so good at being thankful when things are not special one way or the other.

In catching up with my feeds--- I see that Lorna over at Something Good has written a post about returning to her Gratitude Journal, a practice where she writes down each day the things for which she is thankful.  The end of her post, she challenges readers to make their own gratitude list. So today--- when things are ok-- I want to take a minute to write down some things for which I am grateful.

  1. A wonderful hubby and my much loved daughter
  2. A healthy family
  3. Enough money for all of my needs, some of my wants, and a little bit to share with others in need.
  4. My Nikon D80 camera that was given to me by a hubby who understands all the reasons, obvious and subtle, why I really wanted it.
  5. Making it to my 40th birthday where I have reached all my 'by the time I'm 40 I want to have...' goals. Not to mention the good memories that many of those achievements have left me with.
  6. Gigi, Marie, Lynn, Tiff, Mark, Andy, Trippe, and my other though-thick-and-thin friends.
  7. For having too many through-thick-and-thin friends to mention.
  8. Being able to work from home
  9. For having an uncle and a set of grandparents who loves me thought I was the bee's knees know matter what I did.
  10. For my new laptop that is on the way.Prod_ic_nove_minisandwich_2
  11. For Mayfield's Mini ice cream sandwiches
  12. The love of cooking because good food makes the others around me happy too.
  13. My kitty cat-- Marlowe
  14. For the courage to blog my thoughts and the subsequent new people I have met online who have taught me things, challenged my preconceived notions, and made me think more deeply.

Now--- lets take this exercise up a notch----  Taking Lorna's good idea, I'd like to challenge Roger, Ellen, Elisa, Nedra, and Michele to take Lorna's Gratitude challenge.

Test your Vocabulary and Donate Rice to the World's Hungry

Indigence... hmmmm....  poverty????  Correct!  20 Grains are Donated
Remonstrate.....  protest or reproach?  I think protest... correct!  20 grains are donated.
Sheepshank.... uh oh... I'll have to guess....

Responsible Blogger Warning:  If you love words....only go to this site if you have a lot of time to burn.  I just had to step away....

Freericelogo Free Rice is a sister site to Poverty.com.  Basically it provides you a chance to test your vocabulary, learn some new words, and donate 20 grains of rice to the UN World Food Program for each word you get right. Thus far over 23,202,482,290 grains of rice have been donated.

Don't worry-- this won't be dull. This smart vocabulary quiz gets harder as you get words right. Then every once in a while it will throw you a curve ball... a word you probably never heard of or an alternate meaning.

The advertisers on the site pay for the rice.  But be not alarmed... the ads are at the very bottom of the page and are not obtrusive.  However, if you see something of interest--- be sure to click on the ad--- that way this little fun game will stay up. 

Stay tuned to DP--- the support group for FreeRice addicts will meet here in a couple of weeks : )

Hint:  If you spend any time at all on here... be sure to go to the options tab where you can save your vocabulary level and rice donations for future visits. 

Must Read Series on Eradicating Poverty

Thanks to Mitch at Philantopic for pointing to a powerfully crafted series of op-ed articles by Mark Lange at the Christian Science Monitor on how to end global poverty.  The series opens with this imperative call to action:

Could it be possible to eradicate abject poverty in one lifetime? Ever since it was first asked, the question has seemed an improbable wish – a salve for the heart, untenable to the mind. But today, the answer is as clear as it is imperative: Yes.

      

The idea that every living person can have the basics essential to human survival – and from there, begin to climb the ladder of economic development – is a prospect within reach. It does not require a master plan that solves all the world's problems. It does demand that wealthy nations change their approach in ways both subtle and significant.

It also means that the world's poorest – the last billion people who barely survive on the equivalent of less than $1 a day          – must turn from lifetimes of bleak experience and look with higher expectations toward what is possible.       

Today, the "average" person on the edge of survival is a child. Within the next hour, 1,200 more of them will perish. There          are no easy solutions. But there is a clear path toward progress.

At the core of these articles is a profound sense of hope that poverty can be ended.  However, it is not blind hope of some magic wand solution that focuses on simple redistribution of wealth.  Instead, Mr. Lange reveals his hope that endeavors to end poverty will become customized to eliminate the unique situational obstacles that keep "individuals" and communities in poverty.  What he calls for is widespread action among all people (man, woman, corporation, government, NGO, UN, policy makers, agencies.. everyone) to change in whatever ways are necessary to ensure that every person has what he or she needs for survival. He also calls for the poor to also have hope that things can change and that with work on their part, it can be sustained.

In my solution-based biased view, the magnum opus of the series is today's article Practical Steps to End Poverty.  Here... Mr Lange lays out exact ways our views, policies and actions must change.  What he calls for is a profound renaissance in thought, word, and deed--- where we all think about things in different ways, understand how our behaviors contribute to keeping people in poverty and make the changes in our lives so that we are responsible global neighbors to the impoverished in our midst.  The article passionately coveys that no one is immune to the need for change.  So well crafted is his argument is that, if the warlords, dictators, slum lords, sweatshop owners, bigots, bureaucrats, the high-and-mighty, the blissfully apathetic, and the selfish believe that people are listening to Mr. Lange, I would imagine that his days are numbered.

For me--- I'm already sold on the value of microcredit and conscious giving to organizations where I know that my money is used to work toward solutions to people's poverty rather than offering beggarly "aid." However, the article has made me think that I need to be more vocal to my governmental representatives-- an area where I waffle from disgusted to enraged to hopeless to apathetic (defensive mechanism of choice).  One final quotation from the article:

Eradicating abject poverty is not a utopian goal; it's the basis for self-sustaining growth. It doesn't mean solving the entire world's problems. It demands that we focus our attention and resources to ensure the survival and progress of the very worst off.

...To the thousands who give of their time and skills where it most matters, working in some of the most dangerous places in the world, we are all in your debt. And to the citizens of these struggling nations, we know you deserve and are capable of better. Please, tell the rest of us what works. Let us know how we can become a more informed and effective community of conscience.

Thank you for your thoughts Mr. Lange.  I'd love for others to chime in too.

Workplace philanthropy: Have a Baby Shower for Those In Need

Recently, I added a new category designed to help give ideas of ways that workplaces can become more involved in meeting some needs within their communities.  Initially, the goal of this category is to highlight ways that employers can develop one-off opportunities for their employees to band together to do good in the community--- ideally, without tapping significantly into corporate profits. 

Today's idea is to hold a corporate wide baby shower to help families with small children who are having difficulty making ends meet.  The goal is to collect items that can be donated to local food pantries that can be distributed to those who need them.  Items that can be collected include: 

  • diapers
  • formula
  • wipes
  • baby food & cereal
  • juice
  • children's books
  • small stuffed animals

62856521_f139443474_m_3 Now--- I admit--- this idea seems to appeal only to the females in the office--- however, men can be enticed to participate by including some opportunities for competition--- with appropriate prizes offered to the winners. Games include:  speed diapering contest, Printable contests(Famous TV Fathers, Match TV children and parents to their TV Families, Daddy's Little Champion... a sports jargon quiz, raffle tickets), Name that Tune (instructions here), Office Baby Stroller Olympics (instructions here).  Participation is always better when there are prizes--- so be sure to get ones that will appeal to everyone and need not maintain the baby theme. 

Now-- to find an organization to which the items can be donated.  Usually this is easy--- someone in the group usually knows of a worthy organization that can distribute the goods.  However, America's Second Harvest has a "Find a Food Bank" tool that will help you find an organization in your community.

NYT: What Makes People Give? Matching Gifts

I know the February Giving Carnival just covered this, but now comes an article in the New York Times on what makes people give money.  The article examines the impact of donation matching on giving behavior.  Basically, it makes the case that people are not "always clearheaded about money; sometimes the existence of a financial incentive can matter as much as its size."  Matching donations are a way for people to feel like they are giving double the amount ---without the financial ding to their own personal bank accounts.

The article also goes on to do some political and economic speculation that the government should quit offering tax breaks to people and companies who donate.  I'm going to stay out of that--- but you can read the article if you want to learn more.

I know that I give because I want to help.  As someone who has never had an employer offer to match anything, I have developed an independent approach to my giving.  In fact, I treasure the fact that I can give where I want and I am not tempted to give to the big, fat and somewhat lazy organizations and can focus on giving to smaller ones, where I believe my money does the most good.

I would also like to think that the world is changing a little bit.  I'm hoping that more and more people are waking up to the community and issues around them and are at least pondering ways to make it better.  I might just be a hopeless optimist.  Do you have any thoughts on this?  Do you think there is a slow growing cultural change occuring?  If so, do you think matching gifts will wane in importance or do you think they serve as an entre into giving?

I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss!

10920509_359a3a030f_m This week was the annual celebration of Dr. Seuss' birthday and the beginning of this year's Read Across America Campaign.

As a lover of One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish, I wanted to  celebrate by donating to an organization doing their part to impart the joy of reading to children. 

I've always known that reading to children is essential for the love of reading.  In fact, my godchildren and niece have always known that Carol was a sucker and would stop whatever I was doing if a simple question was asked.... "Will you read this to me?"  However recently, reading to children (specifically mine) has taken on a a whole new level of importance

I'm Not the Only Pushover
Reading To Kids is a grassroots movement seeking to inspiring children to develop a love for reading and subsequently giving them a better chance at having a successful and productive life.  Based in Los Angeles, they especially seek to serve the underserved in their area through monthly reading clubs that uses volunteers read aloud to small groups of children, while their parents receive training on how to encourage their children to read at home.  Kids, parents, teachers, and school libraries receive book donations at the end of the Reading Clubs.  These are important donations, as 60 percent of low-income homes do not have age-appropriate reading materials for children.

Readinglogo_100 Reading To Kids Stats
If you glimpse at their website, you will see that the reading clubs are incredibly successful. In fact, this month they are only 5 short of being at capacity (this may change as the month wears on).  Remarkably, since its inception in 1999, Reading to Kids has given more than 56,000 books to children who attend the reading clubs, donated more than 9,800 books to school libraries, and our volunteers have spent over 60,000 hours reading to kids.

If you live in the LA area, Reading to Kids need volunteers (Click here for more information).  Donations of a financial nature help Reading to Kids maintain and expand the reading club program, purchase teacher-selected books for elementary school libraries in low-income communities, and fund book donations directly to children to aid them in developing their own home libraries.

Send your Dollar

To donate by Mail,  please send your check to:
Reading to Kids, 1600 Sawtelle Blvd., Suite 210, Los Angeles, CA 90025.

To Donate through their website:  Click here

To Donate through Network for Good:  Click here  ($10 minimum)

To Donate through Just Give:  Click here  ($5 minimum)

Thanks to Mikefats for the photo

Brag Alert: Natalie attends her first charity event

OK-- I know I promised not to turn this into a Mommy blog--- but I just have to share.  Our new little one attended her first charity event in February.  The event was a fundraiser for Our Pal's Place and was held at Kokosphere Gallery in Roswell, GA.

Nat_and_uncle_aubieHere's a picture of her with her Uncle Aubie -- who toted her around most of the evening. 

Get Some Personal Coaching and Help a Kiva Client Too

 771549422_d9303448c5_m I've been reading Lisa Gates blog, Design your Writing Life, for a good while now.  Recently, she moved her practice to 360 Alliance, a network of personal coaches with the common goal of "creating learning opportunities that strengthen individual and group effectiveness".  I'm impressed that as a group, they are motivated and committed to participating in their community in ways that match their collective vision and values.

It was with some excitement that Lisa told me that the 360 group had decided to "walk the talk"  and offer individuals a 45 minute coaching session in exchange for a good deed donation (any size) to an organization that matches their corporate values.  They call this "Pay It Forward Friday."  Last month 360 Alliance selected the southern tornado victims as their beneficiary.  However, imagine my delight when I learned that the group had selected Kiva (one of my favorites) to be this month's recipient of the good deed. 

If you have questions about coaching or have been considering coaching, this is a good opportunity to try it and do some good at the same time.  If you would like to pose a direct question to the 360 folks, they have a form on their website:  click here

Thanks to Noel Zia Lee for the photo.

Add Some Spice to Your Bunco Night: Make it a Giving Circle Too

82271468_1ee3f31e25_m Well, this should not be news to readers of DP and others who participate in social media fundraising.  USA Today has an article on how participating in Giving Circles (definition here)can be fun.  Who Knew?!?!?!  The Circle discussed in the article get together to share food and wine--- and have raised over $16,000 dollars for a variety of causes that are meaningful for their group. 

This gave me an idea... dinner/supper clubs (for you foodies), bunco nights and annual events among friends (Superbowl parties, 4th of July Celebrations, etc) are an excellent time to do some fundraising or supply/needed item drive.  The great thing is that all the recruiting has been done for the group.  All that is left is picking a cause that resonates with your group and provides a meaningful giving opportunity. Don't forget--- you can also do a supply or needed item drive for a nonprofit if budgets are tight.

In fact, I think I will encourage our small "Square Gang" dinner group to bring a gently used clothing suitable for work so that it can be given to someone who does not have money for interview/work clothes. 

Why don't you try it too....If you need suggestions for great causes to give to---- check out my Good Causes category

Thanks to Jono Rotten for use of the picture.

Dropping the Politics... It is Good For People to Do Good

In a past life, I was married to someone who was sent to the Middle East for Desert Shield and Desert Storm in the 90's.  This experience gave me an up close and personal understanding of the bleakness, desolation, hopelessness, and melancholy that can occur to servicemen and women that are deployed.  They see a lot of really bad things and it can be really easy just to shut oneself off from seeing the suffering and struggles around them.

Drummer Add to that... nothing inspires me more than stories of an individual's selfless acts for others in need and causes they hold dear. And pictures are indeed worth 1000 words.  Thus I wanted to draw your attention to a photoblog I've discovered:  US Military Doing Good Deeds

I don't know the motive of the blogwriter, but to me, I interpreted it as celebration of individuals (lest we forget that the military is comprised of individuals with choices) who have managed to shirk the bleakness of being deployed into situations of suffering and strife to take time to help where they can.

Now for all of you out there who want to make a political statement--- DON'T.  For those of you who want to rant--- DON'T.  I post this link because I (let go of my cynicism) and was moved by some of the pictures and actions of individuals.  I invite you to take a minute to snap out of your bleakness and do the same.

Unsolicited blogtip to US Military Doing Good Deeds:  I also find it fascinating to try to understand what makes some people act and some to pass on by.  It would be great if you included more of the story behind the pictures (especially, about the serviceman or woman and why they help).


Ooops I Missed It: National Corporate Philanthropy Day

I hope this post is not like those dreaded belated birthday cards that shout-- "I'm an idiot for forgetting to do something special for you on your special day." 

Yesterday, February 25, 2008, was National Corporate Philanthropy Day according to the Committee Encouraging Corporate Philanthropy (CECP).  Here is a list large corporate Do-Gooders that celebrated the day with a new philanthropic initiative.

While CECP focues on encouraging large corporation to develop philanthropic intiatives, endeavors and huge strategic giving programs, I want to emphasize that philanthropic efforts of smaller companies can make a difference too (especially to small and mid-sized nonprofit organizations).

Workplace Philanthropy Does Not Have To Come Out Of Corporate Profits

With that said, I want to announce a new category here at DP--- Workplace philanthropy.  Here the focus will be how ANY company and ANY employee can collaborate with the goal of giving back to the community around them.  In this category, I will post information and ideas to help DP readers employed by smaller companies dip their foot in doing good for the community around them.  I encourage people to leave their own idea, experiences, triumphs, bumps in the road and successes to this series via comments--- in hope of it becoming a resource and encouragement for those investigating how to start these types of endeavors.

To start, here are a few "first steps" that can be an entry into a workplace "do good" program.

  1. Identify employees that are actively involved and engaged in nonprofit organization or community improvement efforts (volunteers, donors, and advisors). Invite several of these individuals to develop a committee to investigate how the company can use it's strengths and talents to help the community.
  2. Develop a list  nonprofits in your community (Network for Good is a good resource for this) where your organization is uniquely positioned to help. Brainstorm on how the company can help 2-3 of these organizations.
  3. Buy some cookies and cupcakes and invite representatives from local nonprofits in for a volunteer drive during lunch.  Focus on education and refrain from fundraising during this event.  Don't forget to take time to network with the nonprofit representatives.

Please feel free to add your ideas!!!